Domestic Discipline and arousal doesn’t work for me the way others talk about.

I hear a lot about guys having erections before and during a spanking and even ejaculating during the spanking. I have no idea what the hell they are talking about. When my wife tells me I am getting a spanking, my penis runs and hides, damn near crawls up inside me. My wife’s spankings are so bad that I couldn’t get hard before or during one to save my life.

My arousal comes well after the spanking has happened. Seeing my wife as a powerful, authority figure arouses me. The forfeiture of power and control to her is arousing.

There is no sexual act, or release for either of us connected to my spankings, that way they don’t ever become confused with foreplay. That being said, I will not lie to you and claim the I do not masturbate thinking about spankings I have received, reliving them in my head etc. But from the time she announces that I am getting one to well after it is over and the burning has subsided there is absolutely no arousal felt by me.