It is my opinion that spanked husbands are the best husbands. There are several reasons that have led me to that conclusion and I will share them with you.
Communication
It is critical that as a spanked husband, I communicate clearly and transparently with my wife. I have to let my guard down completely and let my wife know how her discipline and correction effect me. Sometimes the communication is physical, my body’s response to her spankings help her know when the point has been made. Sometimes the communication has to be verbal. By talking to about the spankings afterward help her know if the next ones needs to be more severe or even less severe potentially.
As a spanked husband, having that level of communication about my discipline makes communicating other things in our marriage easier.
Respect
As a spanked husband, I have developed a deep and genuine respect for my wife and her authority. I see my wife as my leader and I feel no need to fight for power which eliminates 99% of arguments. I am proud of my wife and deeply admire her dominance and ability to take charge. Her goals and her vision of our marriage has become mine.
Accountability
As a spanked husband, I am held accountable through spankings and other punishments. That is more effective than fights and arguments. I know that if I do things my wife is unhappy about, I am getting a spanking. The more unhappy she is about it, the worse my spanking will be. That is in my mind every minute of every day and helps me stay mindful of my words and actions.
Trust
After years of being a spanked husband, my wife and I have developed ironclad trust with each other. I trust her implicitly. She earns that trust every time she spanks me by adjusting the severity of my spanking with the severity of why I am being spanked.
My wife trusts me implicitly because she can see my true and ultimate devotion to her. She knows that I know that I will never find another woman like her nor another relationship as fulfilling as ours.
Intimacy
The fact that my wife spanks me adds another level of intimacy to our marriage. Every marriage has intimate, sexual moments that bond the husband and wife. But loving, thoughtful spankings are a whole other level of intimacy. It brings us both into the moment like nothing else. My wife is focused on what I have done wrong and what she has to do to correct me and I am focused on nothing other than the spanking she is giving me. It is impossible for my mind wander to anything other than the pain I am receiving and the growing heat on my butt. We are laser focused on the spanking and that creates an amazingly strong bond between us.