Power Dynamic
There are som many misconceptions of Wife Led Domestic Discipline Marriages. In Wife Led Domestic Discipline Marriages, or at least in ours, my wife doesn’t control every aspect of my life. I still maintain my identity and make decisions for myself daily. My wife’s leadership is applied to very specific aspects of our life together. My wife controls things like what gets done and when and sometimes even how. My wife decides when my actions or words are out of line or unacceptable. And ultimately, my wife controls when I get a spanking or other form of discipline.
The fact that we live a Wife Led Domestic Discipline Marriage does not mean I am weak. Submitting to my wife’s discipline takes a lot of strength actually. My wife’s spankings are severe and agonizing and to willfully accept them takes real strength. I can, at any moment, tell her that I don’t want to continue this relationship dynamic and she would immediately stop.
Some people think that a Female Led Relationship is kink and nothing but BDSM. That could not be farther from the truth. Domestic Discipline is purely a way to resolve conflict in our marriage. There is zero sex involved. In fact, my wife and I agree that on any day I get a spanking, there will be no sex between us. We never want the discipline to feel like foreplay.
The Nature Of Discipline
My wife never spanks out of anger. Even if she is angry about what I have done, the spanking is never in that moment. She will tell me that I will be getting a spanking but she will wait until she has calmed down and give me a thoughtful and controlled spanking.
Humiliation is not the intent of a spanking in a Female Led Domestic Discipline Marriage. It can be humiliating getting a spanking for certain things, but that is just the inherent nature of it and not the intended goal. Being spanked by my wife makes me feel deeply loved and cared for actually.
My wife never spanks me just because she wants to. My wife doesn’t “get off” on spanking me. I am not saying that my wife doesn’t enjoy spanking me, she does. She enjoys asserting her authority and she enjoys showing me how unhappy she is by the severity of the spanking she administers. My spankings are always well earned and never just on a whim.
I never resent my wife for spanking me. Some might think that receiving regular spankings from your waife would cause resentment to build up and fester. You might think that every time your wife is displeased with you, you get a spanking would cause you to pull away from her. The truth is, it is the exact opposite. Every spanking my wife gives me reinvigorates my love for her. Even the worst spankings of all have made me feel even closer to her afterwards.