Maintenance spankings is not something my wife uses and I have mixed feelings about it actually.

My wife’s stand on maintenance spankings is that she does not like the idea of giving a spanking if I have not done anything wrong. I fully understand that, and part of me is glad that she doesn’t do maintenance. The other part of me wonders how much benefit they might have, is there a way to make them a positive part of our domestic discipline

I feel like weekly maintenance spankings could be used as a way to both recap the previous week and talk about the upcoming week.

My thoughts are to have a meeting on Sunday afternoon where we talk about the previous week and how things went. She could talk to me about anything that she wasn’t happy about but she didn’t think it warranted a discipline spanking.

Maybe there were 3 or 4 things that she wasn’t thrilled about that I had done or said. We could talk about those things and then she could spank me for them. Maybe it isn’t as severe as a typical discipline, or punishment spanking. Maybe it is just a set number of swats the same every week. Maybe it is something like 10 swats for each thing she had to talk to me about.

What are your thoughts? Please tell me in the comments.

During that Sunday maintenance meeting, after addressing any issues from the previous week, we could talk about the upcoming week as well. Set expectations, talk about anything that needs to be done or anything upcoming that needs attention. After that talk, she could spank me as motivation to perform during the week and if I let her down in any of the things we discussed during maintenance, then my spanking will be 10 times worse… or something like that.