About Us

I am a man in my mid-40s. My name is Will. I’m 6 feet tall and weigh about a hundred and 90 pounds. I live with my wife Kathy the western part of the United States. We’ve been married for over 10 years. We don’t have any children and both of us have full-time jobs. Until recently, we had a very vanilla relationship. Over the last three years, we have grown a bit apart. Sex just wasn’t that exciting and we became more friends and roommates than lovers.

Last year (2019), I found a few websites that talked about spanking. They also talked about other things a wife could do to her husband. I was very turned on. I imagined Kathy spanking me and taking charge. About a month after I started thinking about this, I mentioned it to my sweet wife. She’s a beautiful woman with a very adventurous soul.

After I told her about my fantasies, she asked me to show her some of the websites I had been reading. They talked about discipline, female-led relationships, and male chastity. She didn’t comment on her reading. I wondered if she didn’t find them interesting.

We spent Thanksgiving weekend alone. We cooked a turkey with all the trimmings. After Thanksgiving dinner, Kathy said that she wanted to talk to me. She told me that she found the websites I showed her exciting. She went on to read others. She wouldn’t tell me what they were.

She said that she wanted to start spanking me and perhaps taking charge. I got instantly aroused. She asked me to find her some good spanking implements.

The title picture is of me. Kathy bought the heart-cutout paddle. The sharp points draw blood. She only used it once so far.

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will's butt with heart paddle
This is the full picture of my butt with the paddle.