Being a spanked husband brings along with it a lot of mixed emotions and feelings.
Embarrassment
When the spankings are purely disciplinary, used as punishment for breaking a previously agreed upon rule or to address certain behaviors, there is an inherent embarrassment that comes along with being reprimanded and having to bare your bottom for a paddling from the woman you love and adore.
Even though it is consensual, being told you are getting a spanking and to bare your bottom for it while being reminded of what you did wrong will never not be embarrassing to me.
Humiliation
This is different from embarrassment for me. There is a level of humiliation, being a grown man and being spanked. This humiliation is intensified if tears start to flow during the spanking. Knowing my wife is looking down at me, unhappy with me and taking it out on my ass. I find it very difficult to make eye contact with her after a spanking. The worse the spanking, the harder it is.
Arousal
I do not find the spankings themselves arousing at all. They are severe and I could not possibly be aroused at the time I am getting one.
What I do find arousing, is seeing my wife as a disciplinarian, as a dominant over me. Submitting to a strong, powerful woman that I love deeply and completely arouses me greatly. Seeing her at any given moment during the day and knowing if I upset her in any way there is a very good chance I will end up face down on the bed being paddled or strapped by her puts her in a very powerful position and I find that arousing.